Read Read Read

My new years resolution this year is to read a book a week. On new years eve I was having a drunken conversation with my brother in law (technically my sister in law’s brother) and I was complaining that I feel like I’ve stagnated in my mental development. I hadn’t felt particularly encouraged or challenged in quite a while. I then realized that I hadn’t read a book in nearly three months. Somehow, in the extremely indolent time post grad school I had also forgotten to read. Wonderful.

I’m on track this year so far and will try to post at least once a month with the books I’ve read along with a short description and review.

I’ve just finished:

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Malcolm Gladwell – What the Dog Saw: And other Adventures

Malcolm Gladwell is a genius and one of my all time favorite authors. This book is a collection of essays and so can be jumped around and/or left in the bathroom for casual perusal. Gladwel sees the same puzzles we all do but actually quests out to find the answers. For example: Why does one brand of ketchup dominate a supermarket shelf while there are dozens of mustards? Answer: read the book. Haha.

One of my favorite chapters is the one the book is named after “What the dog saw”. Gladwell meets and analyzes my hero, the dog whisperer, Cesar Milan. He concludes that its Milan’s extreme confidence, as shown through extremely subtle body movements, is the secret to his super powers. He expands on this by quoting research where people can predict the competence of professionals by watching 2 second video clips. I think it was a previous Gladwell book where I also read about another study in body language and how every minute body language detail is responded to by another’s body language. Unknowingly our bodies continuously act and react to each other multiple times per second. Fascinating. This is why confidence is so sexy, because it bleeds out of our bodies, and there’s no real way to fake it. Body language gives you away.

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Barbara Demick – Nothing to Envy

The most fascinating and heartwrenching book I’ve read in a long long time. I’ve been interested in North Korea for at least 10 years, but this is the first book that has introduced me to the everyday life of North Koreans. Most books focus on security or human rights and skip the culture of normal citizens. What a tragedy.

As a correspondent for the Los Angeles Times in South Korea Demick extensively interviewed defectors living in South Korea and in the book tells their stories from an intimate perspective. The stories are terribly fascinating and focus not only on tragedy. There are love stories as well. I had forgotten that prior to the 1990s North Korea was a relatively decent place to live. Actually until the mid 1980s it was better off than South Korea and lost its power and economy only in the 90s. It is the only country in the world that went from a developed country to a black hole.

Which leads me to my next book, because I want to know… what the hell happened in North Korea? I know they were propped up by the USSR and China, but what exact economic policy blunders were made that caused the 90s fiasco? My next book is The Impossible State by Victor Cha.

A scrupulous writer, in every sentence that he writes, will ask himself at least four questions, thus: What am I trying to say? What words will express it? What image or idiom will make it clearer? Is this image fresh enough to have an effect? And he will probably ask himself two more: Could I put it more shortly? Have I said anything that is avoidable ugly?

— George Orwell

I feel like men are more romantic than women. When we get married we marry, like, one girl, ’cause we’re resistant the whole way until we meet one girl and we think I’d be an idiot if I didn’t marry this girl she’s so great. But it seems like girls get to a place where they just kinda pick the best option… ‘Oh he’s got a good job.’ I mean they spend their whole life looking for Prince Charming and then they marry the guy who’s got a good job and is gonna stick around.

— Blue Valentine

Things to Teach My Son

I must be getting older. I want kids. I want little minds to mold – to make into little Dustins. I’ve been keeping this list for almost a year now and every once in a while I come back to it and pear it down and add something. It’ll never really be complete, but I’ll publish it for now, and will revise it continuously. Unfortunately I fail to follow many of these, but perhaps one day I will.

1. Do the dishes everyday.

2. Always carry a book. Patience is sexy and much easier with a book on hand.

3. Read everyday, read well, and reread as often as not. A good book read 10 times is more worthwhile than 10 mediocre books read once. And don’t trust anyone’s opinion that isn’t well read.

4. Don’t underestimate a pure mind and clean heart. Be innocent, but neither nieve nor ignorant.

5. Good and evil are real.

6. Don’t accumulate crap. Give away and throw away.

7. Don’t build friendships based only on a shared addiction or hobby.

8. Read magazines for news, not newspapers or television. Except of course Colbert and Stewart, if they’re still around.

9. New is not always better – be it books, art, people, and music.

10. Trust your intuition.

11. Be more afraid of not trying than of failing.

12. Write well. If you can’t write well you can’t think clearly.

13. Consider others as more important than yourself.

14. Play one sport well. Preferably basketball.

15. The goal of life is to grow your influence to love, not to grow the amount you are loved. Though the second will come with the first, most people get them confused, and that confusion is ruining the world.

16. Similarly, judge people (and yourself) by the objects and magnitude of their love, rather than who loves them.

17. Give credit where its due. Build up other people and don’t expect it back.

18. Being described as a “nice guy” is an insult.

19. This may not be a thing in 10 years, but don’t hipsterize your photos. Ever.

20. Don’t drink more than your boss.

21. Eat like a local and tip like an American. And if a street performer makes you pause, give him a dollar.

22. If you’re not confident, fake it.

23. Always buy the first meal.

24. Clean to good music, not to a tv show.

25. Take the stairs.

26. Nothing good ever happens after 2am. Go home.

27. Learn to say no.

28. Sit in the front of the classroom.

29. Don’t go to the gym more than three times a week.

30. Don’t sit down on a crowded bus.

31. They don’t care what you have to say until they know how much you care.

32. A good drink only needs one ingredient, sometimes two.

33. Support the vegetarians, and be one at least for a while.

34. Play guitar.

35. Change your own oil but leave your brakes for the mechanic.

36. It’s ok to wear the same clothes, but brush your teeth and change your underwear.

37. It’s ok to sing loudly while you drive, even with friends, and even on a motorcycle.

Switchfoot – Enough to Let Me Go

Do you love me enough to let me go?
To let me follow through
To let me fall for you, my love

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Ed Sheeran – Kiss Me

Can’t get these lines out of my head. Loving the guitar tone, vocal tone, drum tone – every tone. Actually this whole album is amazing.

Kiss Me like you wannna be loved
like you wanna be loved
like you wanna be loved

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Nobody tells this to people who are beginners, I wish someone told me. All of us who do creative work, we get into it because we have good taste. But there is this gap. For the first couple years you make stuff, it’s just not that good. It’s trying to be good, it has potential, but it’s not. But your taste, the thing that got you into the game, is still killer. And your taste is why your work disappoints you. A lot of people never get past this phase, they quit. Most people I know who do interesting, creative work went through years of this. We know our work doesn’t have this special thing that we want it to have. We all go through this. And if you are just starting out or you are still in this phase, you gotta know its normal and the most important thing you can do is do a lot of work. Put yourself on a deadline so that every week you will finish one story. It is only by going through a volume of work that you will close that gap, and your work will be as good as your ambitions. And I took longer to figure out how to do this than anyone I’ve ever met. It’s gonna take awhile. It’s normal to take awhile. You’ve just gotta fight your way through.

— Ira Glass

My Favorite Gifs!!

Well yesterday I finished my MBA program and I feel obligated to write a sweeping post summarizing the myriad life lessons that have irrevocably changed my life this past year. Screw that. I have free time! So I’m going to post my favorite gifs. I’m a reddit stalker and these have been accumulating in my bookmark folder, waiting to be unleashed.

Just open the page and do something else while the gifs load. It’ll be worth it. Enjoy!

By the way, check out this blog full of amazing pastor related gifs: http://everydayimpastoring.tumblr.com/


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My favorites are definitely the pretty ugly girl, the intense black man, and the compassionate kid. Which one(es) is(are) your favorite?

I Hate Photography

Actually I don’t. But I’m frustrated. Like anything, the better you get, the more you realize how far you are from being where you want to be. The more you know, the more you know you don’t know. It’s the same with guitar. I would think I achieved a new level of wicked guitarist god-ness, and then realize I’m a chump.

This is a healthy process. Photography, like any art, is not the spontaneous result of God-given-middle-of-the-night inspiration. I often image songwriters accidentally penning masterpieces drunk or in some sub-conscious stupor. This has been, no doubt, the process of some geniuses – Dostoyevsky comes to mind – but it certainly is not the norm. Art is the outcome of a long process of self-doubt and courageous reinvention. Tomorrow I may be worse, but in a year I will be better.

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